Yes, there are people who are complete dicks who claim to have things because A B and C line up and realize they can use that for their advantage in the moment or in future moments to excuse cliche dickish behavior.. if that's what you want to focus on. Ewck.. Fuck em, they'll always be around, it's a means to an excuse, and that'll be there to be abused by people who can't relate, understand nor care. Which in some cases could be a prelude to a marvilous assortment of disorders that they can wallop in and use as time and situations progress... Sigh.. They're only missing the point of their own social inabilities to cope with the situation they're dealing with. They feel it's ok to be an ass, then use a medial term to cover that up and justify it, ect. Fun line of a lack of respect for people who have BP, and a lack of respect for themselves and the people around them whom theyre subjecting their lies to. Erhm.. BP or not, if someones overreacting and causing too much distress...you say something regardless(how you say it is another matter). It's not a magic get out of jail badge for being an asshole... though I suppose it depends on the situation and means of expression. Again though... Even the biggest asshole has a reason for using a definition like that. It's not exactly a golden ticket to wave about now is it.. Kinda have to be fucked up to falsify a need to have BP (please.. Im not saying anyones fucked up, I just mean it's fucked up to lie that you have BP when you dont, unless its the only thing you can on some level associate too). SIgh... it's case dependant. One liars lying for personal gain, one liars lying because its as close to leveling off uncomfortable situations brought about by them, one persons decieving themself because it's one way that they can feel something.. ect
Idk, hard to paint a picture cause I never really encouter people who make shit up about who they are. I've heard the " im depressed" crap. And tbh, perhaps they are, in their world. Perhaps alot of it has to do with a lack of care and understanding. Either way though, I generally would rather give someone who has BP the same respect that I give anyone else, and if they step over the mark on something, well... take it with a pinch of salt and judge the situation to see if it even involves my input. But for people who openly abuse it, BP or not, sometimes you have to say something.
Fucking hell so do you just leave these people who you assume are abusing a term like BP to their own devices and leave them too it? And what exactly are they doing :S