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    Why is my dad such an asshole

    he just called me to tell me he read somehwere that the city I am currently living is ranked as one of the 3 healthiest cities in America, this is after he knows I am pretty unhealthy both physically and mentally

    Why would he do that, he laughed after he told me this and said "you must be pretty healthy"

    And the rest of the conversation I could hear him trying to contain his laughter as I bet my asshole brother was sitting there laughing with him

    Why are they such assholes, these people are the reason I am in the sorry state I am in

    I was feeling suicidal and miserable before he called, but now I just feel miserable, I bet my dad wants me to kill myself so he can relieve himself of whatever financial burden I may pose to him in the future

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    Re: Why is my dad such an asshole

    I don't feel sorry for you. They are people out there being seriously emotionally and physically abused by there own fathers. All your dad did was see an article that made him think of you and he gave you a call. Not the most sensitive call, but It's a million miles from the true bad out there.

    My own father kicked me out of the family and said he'd call the police and get a restraining order if I attempted to contact them. And I did nothing but lose my job thru no fault of my own.

    Yeah it's not fun when someone isn't entirely sensitive to your situation, but don't exaggerate it.
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    Re: Why is my dad such an asshole

    Quote Originally Posted by Right U R Ken View Post
    I don't feel sorry for you. They are people out there being seriously emotionally and physically abused by there own fathers. All your dad did was see an article that made him think of you and he gave you a call. Not the most sensitive call, but It's a million miles from the true bad out there.

    My own father kicked me out of the family and said he'd call the police and get a restraining order if I attempted to contact them. And I did nothing but lose my job thru no fault of my own.

    Yeah it's not fun when someone isn't entirely sensitive to your situation, but don't exaggerate it.
    ha I assure you my father did far worse and allowed far worse then this small thing to take place, this is just an example of my dad being unsympathetic and probably taking a delight in me being miserable

    Anyway I really dont give a shit if you feel bad for me or not, not to play my misery is greater then yours, but I have a feeling my childhood was far worse then yours and most peoples on here, but yea not comparing, just saying

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    Re: Why is my dad such an asshole

    I agree with you wastedmylife, it's not a competition. That phone call was really insensitive, I can see why it hurt you. I dunno, some people are just like that, you just have to ignore them and remember that you're the better person who doesn't have to make other people feel bad to feel better about yourself.
    And right u r ken, you need to grow up and not undermine someone for feeling the way they do.

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    Re: Why is my dad such an asshole

    Don't give your father and your brother the satisfaction of you ending your life.
    People like that are weak and not even worth spending energy on. If he does things like that again, just give him a warning and tell him not to do it again, if he does do it again then hang up on him. After all, he is an adult right.

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    Re: Why is my dad such an asshole

    Quote Originally Posted by wastedmylife View Post
    but yea not comparing, just saying
    Just saying? No. You're just whining.
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    Re: Why is my dad such an asshole

    Quote Originally Posted by Right U R Ken View Post
    Just saying? No. You're just whining.
    Is that supposed to be tough love right u are ken? :unsure:

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    Re: Why is my dad such an asshole

    Quote Originally Posted by Right U R Ken View Post
    Just saying? No. You're just whining.
    wow. fucking harsh. i can guarantee you ive been through worst shit than you and a lot of other people and i dont still dont judge people about why theyre sad.
    You have no mother fucking concept of how another human being may react to something. one thing that may not phase someone may mentally destroy another.
    yeah i get that you think you got it SOOOO bad, but you have to stop comparing your problems to others. deal with your own shit and stop the judgments cause you dont know shit about wastedmylife's life or anyone elses/
    Last edited by music_addict; 29th August 2008 at 07:57 AM.
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    Re: Why is my dad such an asshole

    As this is a support site I would like to remind some to keep your posts supportive and to be nice, suicidal folks normally have much deeper reasons to take off the cuff remarks to heart.
    I am not a very active participant on SF at the moment, if you need anything just drop one of the active staff a message =)
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    Re: Why is my dad such an asshole

    wastedmylife, can you please give us an example of your childhood problems in the family?

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