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  1. Beka

    How do you tell friends you don't want to make plans atm?

    Basically what the title says, most of my friends understand I have periods of time where I really am too exhausted to make plans but one friend does not. He is unaware of my mental health and I don't really want him to know but lately he's been asking every other day if I'm busy or if I want to...
  2. Beka

    Anyone else?

    So I find this hard to explain but, (I assume) due to my BPD, I find that I'm very in tune to others feelings. Particularly those close to me such as family. But I can't control it. It's like empathy where I can for some reason pretty much always relate to/feel how the person is feeling but I...
  3. Beka

    BPD and romantic relationships

    Okay so I've come a long way in my recovery of BPD and I'm always having these little 'epiphanies' about my behaviors. I've just had another one but I wanted to know if anyone else has had the same issue or has any advice on how to combat it. So I've come to the realization that I've only ever...
  4. Sevven

    Trying to try

    Reading this for pointers, insight, the "aha" moments I get when I go through this stuff. Just feeling worthless. https://www.optimumperformanceinstitute.com/bpd-treatment/triggers/
  5. Beka

    Partner's possible abusive ex

    Hey so it's been a really long time since I've felt the need to come here and post but I didn't know where else to ask for advice really. So he's not my partner but a new guy I'm seeing. It's been going pretty good, he's in the army so we've only been on one date and it was amazing, I've never...
  6. CyphinatSea

    Finally, an answer (BPD)

    So, the past 3 years, I've been going on and off to different doctors, all of whom never took me seriously. In a last ditch effort after my most recent bout of depression and suicidal thoughts, I decided to try and see another doctor. And I think I have finally found someone who will take me...
  7. R

    I don't quite know what is wrong

    Throughout my life, I've been Depressed, Suicidal, and diagnosed with OCD, Anxiety, Anorexia, and so on. I've always been really bad at asking for help and fairly resistant to the idea of going on medication (because of bad experiences being medicated too strongly when I was too young.) Now...
  8. Beka

    Healthy ways to let them know you're struggling?

    Long story short, I have BPD and it's really making my relationship difficult for me at the moment, I need my partner's attention without annoying him. I respect his needs too but I'm struggling and I don't know how to tell him this without seeming like I'm "doing it for attention"
  9. Beka

    BPD and relationships

    So it's been about maybe 2 years since I've been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder, I've had a year of intensive therapy which didn't feel like it was doing jack at the time but now I realise it has actually helped me by teaching me to think in a slightly different way. Because of...
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