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  1. H

    Practical Advice Long story, I cheated and now what

    Hey everyone, I’m new to this so I’m not too sure about how this works so bare with me here... So I’m in a relationship and have been for about a year and a month. Recently I went to a friends house who’s a girl, and a lesbian (we’ll call her sally) . I am also a girl but i am bisexual. Anyway...
  2. A

    Yanderes

    Has anyone on here had experience being in a relationship with a real life yandere? For those who don't know "Yandere" is derived from the Japanese words yanderu, meaning insane or sick, and deredere, meaning affectionate or loving. Simply put, a yandere is someone who is lovesick; someone who...
  3. CBunny9

    I don’t know how to feel about this

    So I’m seeing this guy who is amazing and sweet and so chill with super good vibes. He’s deaf and I’ve been learning ASL. We sign in person obviously but we also text everyday a whole lot. He very often tells me he’s still shocked that I want to be with him because I’m white and he’s brown...
  4. CBunny9

    I’ve never had this happen before

    So I’m sort of seeing this guy I really really like who was my ASL teacher for six weeks. We got to be good friends. He’s in Bangladesh rn with his family until Jan 22nd and we talk every day and he makes me feel so beautiful and appreciated and important and special. It’s really different and...
  5. Beka

    How do you tell friends you don't want to make plans atm?

    Basically what the title says, most of my friends understand I have periods of time where I really am too exhausted to make plans but one friend does not. He is unaware of my mental health and I don't really want him to know but lately he's been asking every other day if I'm busy or if I want to...
  6. CBunny9

    My brain sometimes makes me feel like I don’t love my boyfriend

    i don’t really know how to explain this. I don’t really know where to start. I guess by saying that I know with 100% certainty that I am so so in love with my boyfriend and I know he loves me and I could gush about him forever. But when I’m feeling particularly depressed or dissociative all...
  7. Arwen

    Having a boyfriend but feeling suicidal...

    Every day i cant stop thinking about it. Its not that i really want to kill myself, its just that i dont see the point in living anymore. Kinda like it wouldnt matter if i die, like when im walking down the street i think about <Mod Edit - Methods> just because i can and that it wouldnt matter...
  8. Arwen

    I told my new boyfriend about my depression... and he DIDN'T DUMP ME :D

    Just wanted to make an update, in case anyone else struggles with this sort of thing. I posted a while ago about my ex-boyfriend who broke up with me a few months ago when i told him i was depressed when i was drunk, which caused him to sexually assault me and then break up with me in a really...
  9. Arwen

    A letter i nearly sent to my ex-boyfriend...

    Dear *******, I was trying not to be a crazy person who messages their ex, especially after such a long time, but there’s just a few things that I feel like I need to do. I wrote this ages ago and didn’t plan on sending it at all, but my shrink encouraged me to if I think it will help me. I...
  10. B

    I gave up my family for her and now ......

    I gave up my family for my partner they made me choose and i chose her i had 3 kids with her my life is her then out of the blue its over but i have to live with her as i have nowhere els and cant afford to live alone iv had mixed signals since she told me she loved me but said she diddnt have...
  11. Arwen

    Should i confront my recent ex-boyfriend about how he might have sexually assaulted me?

    We broke up about a month ago now, and i haven't spoken to him since, except for last week when i asked if he wanted his stuff back. I don't know if i'm over reacting, i'm aware that tonnes of people have been through way worse in terms of relationships and in sexual assault, which i'm not even...
  12. Arwen

    Has anyone else been dumped by their partner when they found out you were depressed?

    Basically, I got really drunk when i went out with my boyfriend and his friends clubbing a few weeks ago, and i cried and told him that i hated myself and that i couldn't cope with everything anymore. Even worse, i was so drunk that i don't remember doing it. Then 4 days later after being really...
  13. Fighter86

    I'd appreciate your thoughts

    Just wondered what other people think... when you've gone through such heart-wrenching pain and overwhelming challenges in life for most of your life that you've wanted to end it and have planned to at various times, but didn't, and so you can feel a sense of strength that you've chosen to fight...
  14. Prussia

    Hope this is ok here...?

    I'm not entirely sure if this post fits under this thread or not but if it doesn't, please let me know where it should go (if anywhere) and I'll do the thing. I'm sorry it's super long in advance. Please skip it if you need sleep. Not sure how to start but I would really like some support and...
  15. Magalee

    Can't fight this feeling

    Last night I felt this sinking feeling coming over me, an intense sadness and aching in my heart that's so familiar because it's been a part of me my whole life. I'm falling back into the pit I just climbed out of after a wonderful week of feeling at peace and even happy. I've been on this...
  16. N

    I can't take it anymore...

    My high school journey will come to an end this summer. Although it's been an amazing experience that I wouldn't trade for the world, there's only one thought that gets me sad every time it crosses my mind: her. I met her 4 years ago, and almost instantly took a liking to her. We got very close...
  17. M

    im a terrible person

    hi, please help. ive been a really terrible person and it honestly makes me feel sick, so im going to tell the story of what i did in the hopes that some of you could help me out with fixing everything. so my best friend, A, was being offensive about a topic that my other friend, B, uses as a...
  18. MommyOf1

    I have been hiding something from my fiance that I don't know if he should know.

    Hello, Here's a quick run down of how our relationship has progressed; We met on Match and instantly hit it off, he has one son from a previous relationship and I have one daughter from a previous relationship. He is my first real relationship ever. We've been together for two years and we got...
  19. Maria2120

    I feel the most lonely I've ever felt.

    So I guess this has to do with family, friends and relationships. I'm one of the younger people on here and I just want to know I'm not the only one who ever feels this way. I've been doing so well. I haven't SH since thanks giving day. I honestly thought I was doing okay. But now I feel this...
  20. Rockclimbinggirl

    Experimenting with makeup

    I am starting to experiment with makeup, well eyeliner. I am not really sure why I am. I wonder if having a boyfriend has anything to do with it. @Petal thanks for creating the other thread. I really enjoyed reading everyones responses.
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