Whatever it is, and i know you hear this most likely ALL the time, but whatever it is, i'm sure you can get through it. You need to take sometime out, just get sometime to know you, and if its anything to do with valentines day then please by all means don't do it on that day, that day is worthless - nothing, not worth your bother.
Once you know you, focus on things you like, try find a hobby you enjoy and maybe you'll meet someone through that hobby and gain some good friends etc. Over time the bad things will seem to fade away. I know i can't just "jump in" and help like this but i still want to try. Just incase any of these things have been helpful. If you want to talk, please PM me, any time. :biggrin: