I speak of masturbation, because this is the easiest and probably the best way to do it. If you're having sex with someone else, chances are you should enjoy the orgasm thinking about the other person. So...I choose masturbation for this exercise.
I have found a way to get over mental blocks, and fear. The orgasm. When people think about masturbation, they laugh. But this is a serious thread.
When you climax, or at least when I do, I know that I am, for at least a moment, in a state of fearlessness and happiness. If I think about something I am afraid of, I can think of that thing, for at least a second, without any fear whatsoever. Doing this over a time span, will eventually help me deal with it. It may not get rid of the fear totally, but it will help me accept it, and maybe get over it to a large degree. The best way to get rid of a fear, is to face it directly, though.
I orgasm at least once a day. If I feel hopeless, or any feeling as horrible as that, I know that for at least one second I was fearless, happy, and invincible.
Yep, sounds funny talking about masturbation in such a serious tone, but really think about it. You'll be surprised at what something like that can do to you.
I have found a way to get over mental blocks, and fear. The orgasm. When people think about masturbation, they laugh. But this is a serious thread.
When you climax, or at least when I do, I know that I am, for at least a moment, in a state of fearlessness and happiness. If I think about something I am afraid of, I can think of that thing, for at least a second, without any fear whatsoever. Doing this over a time span, will eventually help me deal with it. It may not get rid of the fear totally, but it will help me accept it, and maybe get over it to a large degree. The best way to get rid of a fear, is to face it directly, though.
I orgasm at least once a day. If I feel hopeless, or any feeling as horrible as that, I know that for at least one second I was fearless, happy, and invincible.
Yep, sounds funny talking about masturbation in such a serious tone, but really think about it. You'll be surprised at what something like that can do to you.