Hey Guys, I haven't come here to rant and rave about how I've never been in a relationship, rather I've come to ask for some help and advice. I've been shy for a long time, that's not how I am by nature but since I turned 13 I can remember always thinking that it would somehow be "wierd" to be in a relationship. My parents always make me feel awkward whenever I talk about a girl or have some sort of interaction with one. It's been like that since I was little and it hasn't changed, because of this I never really experienced anything in high school so I literally don't know how to meet women or talk to them. I always feel like I'm doing something wrong or I get really nervous. To this day I've never done anything with a girl, never been on a date, never kissed anyone, never held hands with anyone. I'm a little overweight so I've very self conscious about that and I know that's part of my problem, because to me appearance is a HUGE factor. You may call me shallow all you want but for me there has to be some sort of physical attraction to someone you're dating, and to be frank I am usually attracted to women completely "out of my league". To be honest I have trouble in a lot of areas not just male/female relationships but meeting friends in general, right now I can literally count the amount of close friends I have/ hang out with on 1 hand. Any advice would be helpful, or to anyone who lives in the San Diego area (Male or Female) I'd be willing to hang out with anyone. I could use a workout buddy as I'm training to join the Air Force, if that interests anyone. (If anyone is interested in hanging out just message my AIM or MSN and I'll send you my phone number) Thanks in advance, Dan B.