Just over 3 weeks. Everything seems pretty normal (relative term!). Huge part of plan fell into place today. Writing letters is the hardest part. Done a few, and I know some will understand more than others. I think it helps that I have a schedule. I could do it now, but want to "tidy up", as it were, before I leave. Does anyone know of anyone who has confided in a friend, and the friend has not tried to stop them. There's one person I know who might be like this, but I can't risk it in case they tell others.