Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by absolution, Jan 30, 2011.
lost everuthing... done...
What's happened Sam?
lost...everything... everyone :cry: and... he wants to "hang out".. i cant be here for that
Pm me if you want to talk
You have a fiance!
Is 'he', your dad?
You don't have to do anything you don't want to Sam.
I don't anymore....
yes him.. and yes i have to... :cry:
What? You and Krista are not together anymore?!
Why do you have too?
yeah.. we're not..
because..hes my dad.. i have to listen to him.... :blub:
What on earth happened? I'm so sorry :hug:
You don't have to listen to him. You are an adult and can do what you please. And if you feel threatened by him then put a restraining order on him.
You don't have to see him Sam, honestly.
Long story :hug:
And its...complicated... i feel like.. i have to because... ahh i dunno. something is telling me i have too...
Well that something can fuck off. You do not need to see him.
You need to speak to your therapist about this. Can you get in to see them soon?
:laugh: that made me actually lol thanks. I dont want to see him... last time i did.. i nearly shat my pants.. DX
And i dunno what to say to her.. i see her tomorrow :s
Say as much or as little as you want, talking helps
:hug: Always here for you or on MSN
If you don't want to then don't, you have control over this. Don't let anything make you feel otherwise.
Just say to her that your dad wants to see you, but you don't want to. However something makes you feel that you have to. And just take it from there. If you struggle to verbalise it, write it down and give her the note. that way she can start off the conversation and ask you some questions.
It's ok Samsam :hug:
Alright. I'll talk to her. Maybe writing it down would be easier :hug:
Thanks Bec :hugtackles:
Definitely easier. I know i get tongue tied when it comes to more difficult topics. This way i can just hand my therapist a note, which she knows means it is hard for me to verbalise and she will then start out gently with me.
Your most welcome :hug:
Now go sort out things with that fiance of yours!
there isn't really anything to sort out :hug:
Well what's happened?
Hard to explain.. dont think i should do it on the forum tho :hug: