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Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by absolution, Jan 30, 2011.

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  1. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    lost everuthing... done...
     
  2. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    What's happened Sam?
     
  3. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    lost...everything... everyone :cry: and... he wants to "hang out".. i cant be here for that
     
  4. Rukia

    Rukia Well-Known Member

    :hug:
    Pm me if you want to talk
     
  5. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    thnks :hug:
     
  6. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    You have a fiance!

    Is 'he', your dad?

    You don't have to do anything you don't want to Sam.
     
  7. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    I don't anymore....

    yes him.. and yes i have to... :cry:
     
  8. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    What? You and Krista are not together anymore?!

    Why do you have too?
     
  9. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    yeah.. we're not.. :(

    because..hes my dad.. i have to listen to him.... :blub:
     
  10. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    What on earth happened? I'm so sorry :hug:

    You don't have to listen to him. You are an adult and can do what you please. And if you feel threatened by him then put a restraining order on him.

    You don't have to see him Sam, honestly.
     
  11. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    Long story :( :hug:

    And its...complicated... i feel like.. i have to because... ahh i dunno. :( something is telling me i have too... :(
     
  12. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    Well that something can fuck off. You do not need to see him.

    You need to speak to your therapist about this. Can you get in to see them soon?
     
  13. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    :laugh: that made me actually lol :p thanks. I dont want to see him... last time i did.. i nearly shat my pants.. DX

    And i dunno what to say to her.. i see her tomorrow :s
     
  14. Cute_Angel_Xx

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    Say as much or as little as you want, talking helps :)
    :hug: Always here for you or on MSN
    :hug: x
     
  15. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    If you don't want to then don't, you have control over this. Don't let anything make you feel otherwise.

    Just say to her that your dad wants to see you, but you don't want to. However something makes you feel that you have to. And just take it from there. If you struggle to verbalise it, write it down and give her the note. that way she can start off the conversation and ask you some questions.

    It's ok Samsam :hug:
     
  16. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    Alright. I'll talk to her. Maybe writing it down would be easier :) :hug:

    Thanks Bec :hugtackles:
     
  17. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    Definitely easier. I know i get tongue tied when it comes to more difficult topics. This way i can just hand my therapist a note, which she knows means it is hard for me to verbalise and she will then start out gently with me.

    Your most welcome :hug:

    Now go sort out things with that fiance of yours!
     
  18. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    there isn't really anything to sort out :hug: :(
     
  19. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    Well what's happened?
     
  20. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    Hard to explain.. dont think i should do it on the forum tho :( :hug:
     
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