1. the_only_one

    the_only_one Well-Known Member

    WHAT ThE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?!?!
     
  2. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    why? what happened?
     
  3. the_only_one

    the_only_one Well-Known Member

    i was sexualy abused(i guess thats what you would call it) by my aunt. but ivthink i actually enjoyed it untill afterwards
     
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    im sorry to hear you were abused, have you had any counselling to help you come to terms with what happened?
     
  5. the_only_one

    the_only_one Well-Known Member

    not yet...am i screwed up for being like this??
     
  6. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    No you're not. when someone is sexually abused, their emotions are all mixed up, you're not screwed but you do need to seek some kind of help.
     
  7. the_only_one

    the_only_one Well-Known Member

    im too afraid.
     
  8. Socialman

    Socialman Well-Known Member

    Psychologists are screwed up with this issue though. They will ask you if you enjoyed it, but if you were young then you probably enjoyed it until you found out why it was so wrong. Of course, if you are male, then the psychologist usually dismisses that it should be a problem.

    I enjoyed it when my sister would have me do stuff to her, but it screwed me up so much when I got older that I warded off sex (still a virgin in way), developed trust issues, and still cannot form relationships. Seek therapy asap. You don't want to end up in your 20s with these issues because you didn't feel like talking.
     
  9. dazzle11215

    dazzle11215 Staff Alumni

  10. the_only_one

    the_only_one Well-Known Member

    i thank you guys deeply
     
  11. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    :hugtackles::hugtackles::hugtackles::hugtackles: