Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by the_only_one, Apr 24, 2011.
WHAT ThE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?!?!
why? what happened?
i was sexualy abused(i guess thats what you would call it) by my aunt. but ivthink i actually enjoyed it untill afterwards
im sorry to hear you were abused, have you had any counselling to help you come to terms with what happened?
not yet...am i screwed up for being like this??
No you're not. when someone is sexually abused, their emotions are all mixed up, you're not screwed but you do need to seek some kind of help.
im too afraid.
Psychologists are screwed up with this issue though. They will ask you if you enjoyed it, but if you were young then you probably enjoyed it until you found out why it was so wrong. Of course, if you are male, then the psychologist usually dismisses that it should be a problem.
I enjoyed it when my sister would have me do stuff to her, but it screwed me up so much when I got older that I warded off sex (still a virgin in way), developed trust issues, and still cannot form relationships. Seek therapy asap. You don't want to end up in your 20s with these issues because you didn't feel like talking.
if you are talking about being turned on or getting aroused while being abused, it's common. read this article
it's nothing to be ashamed about. seek help. find a good therapist and commit to seeing them weekly. you dont' have to talk about it right away, but once you build trust it should be ok.
i thank you guys deeply