Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by gentlelady, Apr 23, 2012.

  1. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    I quit!
  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    No hun I won't let you quit okay you take a rest away you find a place quiet just for you for awhile but no you cannot quit okay hugs to you
  3. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    please don't quit 'gentle'...

    do you want to talk about it? :hug:
  4. Sadeyes

    Sadeyes Staff Alumni

    C...all I can say, is that you are not allowed to; that's right...allowed to...you mean so much to me, that the thought of not hearing from you for more than a few days hurts, let alone, you hurting yourself in any way...you know I am here, that we have been down this very trying road together...I need you...again, that's right; need you...and no, having other friends is not good enough...I want you in my life until we are too old to remember who the heck we are...talk to me; you have never over stayed your welcome...I deeply love you

    PS...you have truly had it more difficult than anyone could imagine...it is not fair that someone as good and as giving as you should have to go through that...as you always say, wish I could do something to protect you from all of this...but all I have is my 'undying' love and respect
  5. MoAnamCara

    MoAnamCara SF Artist


    You have been a wonderful, surprising, support to me recently. To have someone who's compassion for others is so evident and to share that quality of yours with me humbles me greatly.

    I have said much recently, quitting, running away, hibernating and of course the ultimate good bye. I'm here, because of people like you. So let us now return the favor please. :hug:
  6. MisterBGone

    MisterBGone Well-Known Member

    No. Please don't go. I'd miss you so...& so would everybody else around here...you're like a savior to me!
  7. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    thinking of you 'gentle' :hug: :console:
  8. Witty_Sarcasm

    Witty_Sarcasm Eccentric writer, general weirdo, heedless heathen

    I don't know what's going on in your life, but you are well-liked and very appreciated here, so I hope that you decide not to leave. Maybe take some time away if it's helpful, but I hope you do return soon.
  9. Butterfly

    Butterfly Sim Addict Staff Alumni SF Author SF Supporter

    C, you are very much loved here and have done nothing be be supportive, loving and caring to all of us here. Don't quit, let us try and give you all the love and support you give us on a daily basis :hug:
  10. Tea_at_Four

    Tea_at_Four Staff Alumni

    Sending you :hug: , and cups of tea \_/> \_/> \_/> , and fresh muffins. Be well, m'dear.
  11. No you cannot quit. :hug:
    I can still remember it was you who have saved me from being banned from the forum during the first few months i joined here. One crazy fella in same country as me with similar IP address (public wi-fi) created a storm in chat and encouraged suicide here and I was almost banned for it but you have been fair enough to look at my number of helpful posts in the forum and allow me to stay. For this, I cannot let you quit. You are someone I always remembered talking to in the chat room (first admin). Please don't quit. And I love you too. :hug: I missed your absence in the forum. Please do keep posting and don't quit.
  12. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement. I am trying, but know deep down I am failing. Shant be long. Take care of yourselves and stay safe. You are beautiful people inside and out. :hug:
  13. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    I am glad you keep trying hun and with support and help you will be okay downward spiral can be scary i know but you stay safe ok you are beautiful inside and out too hugs
  14. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    don't give up Gentle..I know you've had a really tough time but you are much loved here :hug:
  15. Acy

    Acy Mama Bear - TLC, Common Sense Staff Member Safety & Support

    gentlelady, we all have those times when we think, deep down inside, that we are failing. "Deep down" seems to be one of the places where the voice of depression hides and then arises to mess with our minds.

    You bring so much light to others, you draw out the hope and good in others - perhaps do those things for yourself now, too. I care about you very much and will support you however I can, so please just ask. :arms:
  16. MisterBGone

    MisterBGone Well-Known Member

    Hey! Just checking in to see how you're doing to-day!! I hope good...no-great...make that-wonderful...:D
  17. Perhapsa3

    Perhapsa3 Well-Known Member

    Don't quit. This site provides support for individuals when they need help most. Know that for those who choose to go the other way do receive some measure of comfort no matter what they decide. Enjoy your break.:)
  18. lightbeam

    lightbeam Antiquities Friend

    C! I'm sorry I didn't see this until now. :hug: I hope everything is on the mend. Sometimes 'trying' is all we can do, but it's good enough. Hoping that you have a good break..