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A Broken Heart

1Lefty

1Lefty

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#1
#1
That's what I have, literally, the mitral valve has a prolapse and needs to be repaired
I'm planning to have a minimally invasive surgery done, via slits in the right side of my chest
I had a left heart catheterization procedure done 3 days ago, there were no problems with my arteries that would add complications

It's working on my mind, a lot
The actual surgery doesn't bother me
The thought of recovery and then rehab does

More later

peace
 
MisterBGone

MisterBGone

AS I AM ✅
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#2
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1Lefty said:
That's what I have, literally, the mitral valve has a prolapse and needs to be repaired
I'm planning to have a minimally invasive surgery done, via slits in the right side of my chest
I had a left heart catheterization procedure done 3 days ago, there were no problems with my arteries that would add complications

It's working on my mind, a lot
The actual surgery doesn't bother me
The thought of recovery and then rehab does

More later

peace
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Sending you all the warm, kind, caring & compassionate thoughts that I can muster @1Lefty ~!*:)

They've come a long way in cardiac care. My Grandma had a quad bypass in 1980. Lived until 2015 (almost 90!)~*> ;)

So, just keep on going & I'm sure your persevering will serve you well. We are all here standing beside & behind you, so...

Just know that as well! PEACE. :^) -mr. b*
 
AmberMarie

AmberMarie

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#3
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1Lefty said:
That's what I have, literally, the mitral valve has a prolapse and needs to be repaired
I'm planning to have a minimally invasive surgery done, via slits in the right side of my chest
I had a left heart catheterization procedure done 3 days ago, there were no problems with my arteries that would add complications

It's working on my mind, a lot
The actual surgery doesn't bother me
The thought of recovery and then rehab does

More later

peace
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It's a good thing, although this procedure is what some would call invasive because... well... it's your heart! It's also minimal due to the smaller incisions and easier recovery time.

Mitral valve prolapse can be everything from minor (like mine that only affects me during times when my body is under extreme stress like pregnancy) to needing surgery like yours. Others are also controlled with medications. i am grateful your doctor seems to understand what will be best for you.

It sounds very promising with your arteries being strong. i am hopeful rehab will be minor and easy for you along with recovery time.

Wishing you Peace and Comfort!
 
FlamingoWrangler

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💔~❤️‍🩹
It’s scary. There is risk. But there is a high probability that you’ll feel better than you have in a long while. Idk your activity level now, but cardiac rehab isn’t the torture it used to be. I am interested in hearing about your journey. We are here to support & encourage you.
🦩🦩🦩🦩
 
Ash600

Ash600

Of dust and shadows
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Just wandering if anyone has of yet has discussed the post op recovery and rehab process. Understandably such things can play on one's mind.

Where in the past, such procedures were carried out by open heart surgery, from what you've mentioned you could be having a relatively new type of procedure that'll be much less invasive. If it is, then they'll be using a kind of harpoon device to carry out the procedure. From what I know, as well as being minimally invasive (compared to general surgery), the actual method takes around half as long to perform, and can also markedly reduce the time the patient will have to spend in hospital which can lead to shorter recovery times.

Anyways, wishing you the best.
 
seabird

seabird

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I agree it is intimidating to consider recovering from the surgery. Deep down it seems strange to have to allow an injury in order to be healed. But with modern knowledge and skill on your side, the outcome is very good. 🤗

I believe you've got this @1Lefty .
We're here, for whenever you want or feel talking about it will help. I think know that that having a few good people around adds greatly to one's ability to heal.
 
1Lefty

1Lefty

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I'm so pissed right now, furious actually, and I want to put my fist through something. It's been a long time since I wanted that, but I can't even hit a fucking pillow because of my right hand/wrist/arm where the catheter was placed.

Add frustration. And disappointment. I want to cry.

My typical stress tools aren't working yet. I know I'll be calm again, but I don't know how I'm going to get there.

The dentist found 4 cavities, which will have to be filled (2 appointments) before he will give me clearance for my surgery.

A bunch of other little, aggravating shit is going on, mainly having too much to do, with not much money or energy.
My house is not nearly ready for my sister to come to stay with me after the surgery. Again, money is a problem, there are things that need to be replaced. Others need to be scrubbed clean, but I don't have much energy. There are also things that need to be moved, to make the place safer to get around in. I know it should always be that way, but it's not.

And I'm missing my wife so much, I know that she would have things organized, and keep me oriented in a healthy direction. Not to mention having her to care for me after surgery. There's nothing I can do

I'll be ok tomorrow, or sometime, but the present sucks

peace
 
Livelife

Livelife

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#18
#18
1Lefty said:
I'm so pissed right now, furious actually, and I want to put my fist through something. It's been a long time since I wanted that, but I can't even hit a fucking pillow because of my right hand/wrist/arm where the catheter was placed.

Add frustration. And disappointment. I want to cry.

My typical stress tools aren't working yet. I know I'll be calm again, but I don't know how I'm going to get there.

The dentist found 4 cavities, which will have to be filled (2 appointments) before he will give me clearance for my surgery.

A bunch of other little, aggravating shit is going on, mainly having too much to do, with not much money or energy.
My house is not nearly ready for my sister to come to stay with me after the surgery. Again, money is a problem, there are things that need to be replaced. Others need to be scrubbed clean, but I don't have much energy. There are also things that need to be moved, to make the place safer to get around in. I know it should always be that way, but it's not.

And I'm missing my wife so much, I know that she would have things organized, and keep me oriented in a healthy direction. Not to mention having her to care for me after surgery. There's nothing I can do

I'll be ok tomorrow, or sometime, but the present sucks

peace
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I hope I'm not being out of line by commenting, but that's a lot on your plate today combined with a low energy reservoir. Be pissed, cry, deep breathe, whatever and it's good to hear you know it will pass. I'm sorry to hear about the cavities, dental and cardiac are connected though....and I guess it depends on which teeth they are located in or maybe he's being kind to just do 2 at a time or maybe just doesn't want to inject too much anesthesia locally in your mouth at once, did he say? Can he do 2 and 2 with just one day apart, that way it can get done in 48 hours.....just thinking out loud.....

I trust your sister won't mind and understands if you can't get everything you want done before her arrival, although I'm hearing you'd like it to be a certain way before she arrives. I'm glad to hear there will be someone with you for awhile after the procedure.
And I'm sorry your wife isn't there with you right now.........



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