I just noticed this section on SF and how fitting right now. I was away last week back where I used to live. I got into bad habits which included drinking again and eventually a half ass suicide attempt. Right before that attempt, the night before, I did something else. I spent the night with a man that I have respect for. He has been a counselor to me and a spiritural guide. I know it was wrong, but I didnt stop it. He is a Pastor, married with children. Yes I knew that. I am sure some reading are calling me all sort of names. That is your right, but I am not posting here on the married judgement thing. My issue is, what if he was single. Would it be wrong to get involved with a Pastor who has counseled me? I am not sure what to do with the relationship but its on hold as we are in two different states anyways. I dont see a future and am OK with it did raise feelings.