Okay so my friend is only 16 and has been out of the closet for about a year and a half. He had a a growth spurt and lost a TON of weight. He looks healthy and feels a million times better about himself, so much so that he has become completely OBSESSED with “how sexy” he is. I'm happy for him not only for finally being honest about who he is, but also for his drastic effort to change his body………. BUT- How far is too far? I am EXTREMELY worried that he is going to develop an eating disorder in his anxiety about returning to being “unattractive”. I’m also not sure that his new self-image is entirely healthy. He honestly believes he is completely gorgeous now that he has lost his weight- and I don’t want to sound terrible or completely evil, but looks are certainly more than just body mass. I worry that not everyone is going to be so understanding of his provocative pictures or his self obsession. This is a totally new playing field for me- I have no problem with him being gay in fact I greatly encouraged him to be open to who he truly is, but what I wasn’t ready for was his unrealistic self-ideas. Anybody have any advice? I’m really lost at this point on how to deal with the way he acts.