I have a friend who claims to have D.I.D. a dual personality disorder. But sometimes I do and do not believe her, its so hard to tell if its true or not. I know Mary, very sweet, loves her boyfriend dearly, some day wants kids. Though her other personality, who i shall call V for now, contradicts her, she seems to hate kids, hates the idea of putting herself bellow any man, but she to has grown to love the boyfriend also, just not as much in certain areas, very opinionated and a bit reckless. As hard telling it is, I am unsure if this is some sort of way of dealing with her doubts and insecurities, or could be some kind of self defense mechanism, or she is actually faking it. But personally, I have to view both of them as the same person, cause in ways they are alike characteristically. The funny part is the more aggressive side fears merging with Mary, she feels weakness, and she thinks Mary is too weak and naive, where Mary really hopes for this to happen. I talked to Mary the topic of merging one night as we was driving, I mentioned to Mary that V fears of merging, cause she wants control of herself, and like I said before she thinks Mary is too weak and naive and has ben taken advantage of too much, but I told all of this, it made V emerge, the whole topic of her being afraid pissed her off, the way I noticed she emerged was how she put her hair up, but man was she pissed. but like i said before I don't know if she is faking or not, any opinions?