A thought

Discussion in 'Rape and Abuse' started by MoAnamCara, Sep 10, 2011.

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  1. MoAnamCara

    MoAnamCara SF Artist

    Today, a thought came to mind that really threw me for a loop.

    And that thought was: What if I stayed in my previous r'ship, wouldn't I have perhaps been dead by now and wouldn't that be better than having to experience what is going on now and the things that have happened since I left?

    It is obviously an illogical thought, but why would my mind even go there? Just to escape?
  2. Sadeyes

    Sadeyes Staff Alumni

    Stress and being overwhelmed does terrible things to our mind (quite the understatement!) so that is probably why...but if you were not here, I would never have met you, which would be my great loss...with fondness
  3. Julia-C

    Julia-C Well-Known Member

    I'm glad you are here now.
  4. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    I believe our minds tend to ruminate the what ifs and if onlys way too much to try and solve our problems when they're overwhelming us..
    mine drives me insane ..
    if you'd stayed in the relationship you most likely would be still alive and living that hell daily
    you deserve credit for getting out of it and looking after yourself :hugtackles:
  5. MoAnamCara

    MoAnamCara SF Artist

    Thank you so much Sadeyes, Julia & IV. Take care of yourselves.
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