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I wouldnt like to see the people who cared about me getting upset just because Im dead. Also, I wouldnt like to know how many people went to my funeral just because they had to. I dont want anyone going to my funeral if their just going to be bored.
In the unlikely event I end up at the pearly gates I think I would just saunter in and begin searching for the management.