Hello all. I am a 41 year old male, father of 2 young kids to a full blown narcissist/sociopath/psychopath woman. There in lies the reason I'm here. Recent final discard from patho woman was 4 months ago. She disappeared with my kids to an unknown address 4 months ago, keeping kids from me and my family haven't seen or spoken to them since then. She's made me and my kids lives an unexplainable nightmare for years now and her mask is finally fully off so the worst abuse is now and I know will only get even worse. I need to survive for my kids and loved ones. Hard cause all I wanna do is die. Is there any good future when you had kids with the devil. There's the just of my story and why I'm here.
About me and why I'm here
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Hi @Cursed712 I'm sorry to hear how your children's mother is treating you. It's hard for children who have a narcissistic parent. They definitely need the rational parent to stay alive for them. You'll always have a place here to share your thoughts and feelings. we're here for you. And we're glad to have you here.
that's awful, I'm so sorry. I can imagine the nightmare you're in as my dad is in a similar position to you. His partner is a narc/psychopath too. They still live together but she's threatened to break up and take the kids away if he doesn't agree with nonsense she says etc. I'd be here all day listing all the awful things she's done to people including her own young children and me and my dad. Those people are absolute hell on earth, I feel your pain. I hope somehow things can be resolved someday. Stay strong 
that's awful, I'm so sorry. I can imagine the nightmare you're in as my dad is in a similar position to you. His partner is a narc/psychopath too. They still live together but she's threatened to break up and take the kids away if he doesn't agree with nonsense she says etc. I'd be here all day listing all the awful things she's done to people including her own young children and me and my dad. Those people are absolute hell on earth, I feel your pain. I hope somehow things can be resolved someday. Stay strong
you're welcome 
it drives me mad that they act all innocent with strangers or on social media- posting as if they're great people and everyone else is a nightmare, when it's them gaslighting everyone and lying. I'm not "allowed" to see my dad or siblings anymore thanks to his psycho partner. I didn't even do anything wrong, she just got pissed with me because I didn't agree with her twisted lies and bullying so she twisted things more and made out I'm awful and mocked me for my parents being seperated which is partly her fault seeing as she cheated with my dad. Such a joke.
it drives me mad that they act all innocent with strangers or on social media- posting as if they're great people and everyone else is a nightmare, when it's them gaslighting everyone and lying. I'm not "allowed" to see my dad or siblings anymore thanks to his psycho partner. I didn't even do anything wrong, she just got pissed with me because I didn't agree with her twisted lies and bullying so she twisted things more and made out I'm awful and mocked me for my parents being seperated which is partly her fault seeing as she cheated with my dad. Such a joke.
you're welcome
it drives me mad that they act all innocent with strangers or on social media- posting as if they're great people and everyone else is a nightmare, when it's them gaslighting everyone and lying. I'm not "allowed" to see my dad or siblings anymore thanks to his psycho partner. I didn't even do anything wrong, she just got pissed with me because I didn't agree with her twisted lies and bullying so she twisted things more and made out I'm awful and mocked me for my parents being seperated which is partly her fault seeing as she cheated with my dad. Such a joke.
it drives me mad that they act all innocent with strangers or on social media- posting as if they're great people and everyone else is a nightmare, when it's them gaslighting everyone and lying. I'm not "allowed" to see my dad or siblings anymore thanks to his psycho partner. I didn't even do anything wrong, she just got pissed with me because I didn't agree with her twisted lies and bullying so she twisted things more and made out I'm awful and mocked me for my parents being seperated which is partly her fault seeing as she cheated with my dad. Such a joke.
usually i would like to cheer you up for first but, i would like to ask, have you contacted the police? i feel like it may be easier for them dealt with her, considering all the things she has done she may be locked away for good. I am glad you have found the strength to stay strong amidst your pain. thank you very much for being with us today, your kids will need you, your emotional support, as well as (if you can) your ability to share your strength/will to live. so they can get through their ptsd once you find them.