So i just received a threat from my abuser, telling me i won't get away with having disclosed the abuse?
I am seeing my solicitor asap but i am also wondering if i should contact police too?
This is what i have been worrying about ever since telling about the abuse. That something will happen to me, something very bad. I just don;t know what to do now.
Im so sorry this is happening to u. Please make sure u keep a record of these threats. eg If its voicemail then record it and keep the recording. Dont wait to see your solicitor, phone him/her now and then phone the police. It might be that your solicitor can phone the police for you and make sure they do what they should do.
With this new threat it sounds like you might well have enough for a restraining order. This will be able to say that your abuser must not contact you again in anyway and it will be a serious criminal offense if the abuser does.
But to make sure have enough evidence, as suggested above, keep careful record of any further messages etc from the abuser. As well as recording it, note down time and day.
SO PHONE SOLICITOR TODAY. This will work out OK I think. You did a brave and correct thing and have shown your abuser that you are strong. best wishes R