kk, now this one is serious n i really dont understand what the hell is goin on so maybe somebody will be able to explain. i share the house with my friend n his gf. they relationship is really disgusting to me. they have arguments twice daily. im the morning - before he goes to work, and at nite - when he returnts. on the good days its a ten minute 'fuck u, no -fuck u!' sesion, on the bad days it can be really horrible. and when i say horrible, trust me, i mean it. the guy is fucked up in his brain in this sence. he treats everyone nicely, everyone exept her. like even today - she was crying. nearly every day he makes her cry. and their argumens is.. well, all the most disgusting words a man can say to a woman, anything u can imagine, she hear that every day. he even slaped her once, only once in two yrs as far as i know, n it was more 4 a shock effect, coz i he'd really hit her she'd die there n then, as shes a small tiny girl, and hes a 100kg plus bodybuilder. dont get me wrong, hes a really good guy (thats why im friends with him) in every sence exept that. but talking bout his behaviour with his girl.. oh boy, if u'd see this hudge monster all furious screaming on this girl like 'slut, ima kill u, ima kill right now u fuckin bitch' u would run away n call police lol BUT. theres one big but. so far u'd think its ur typical abusive relationship and shes a victim. believe me, i wouldnt allow such things to happen in the place i live the thing is, i cant see her as a victim. first of all, shes not depending on him in any way, they're not married nor anything and she could dump him any time plus, shes not scared of him. he might be screaming that hes gonna kill her but hes not gonna do it and she knows it. hes not a violent person really, and always trying to avoid any problems. i know 4 sure he'd never beat her up or anything like that, even tho hes threatening every day. she knows that, too and when hes calms down and she stops crying - then she starts taking revange n screaming all the most disgusting things back at him. well, what im tryna say - shes not scared of him. plus, shes from another country. she lives here for a few months, goes back, comes back again, its like that.. so basically, its obvious, if she wouldnt wanna be with him, she simply wouldnt come back, isnt it? the only thing which makes her a victim is that shes the one who always ends up crying and hes the one who always starts argumes. the only time she starts the argument is when she catches him cheating. oh yeh, thats another thing - hes always cheating on her. yep, so when i thing bout them it just leaves me clueless. wtf? what kinda relationship is that? he treats her so bad, so disgusting, and she stil stays with him? why 4 fucks sake she doesnt leave him? he doesnt love her, his with her 4 only reason - sex, plus she cleans the house, prepares food and all that. so its convenient 4 him. but what about her? i tried to talk to her but she went like 'its just the way we communicate' and she told him i was questioning and then he came to me askin what the fuck is my problem. if anyone is stil reading til this point - can u try n explain me why would this girl continue such an abusive n humiliating relationship?