Addiction

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by pit, Mar 23, 2008.

  1. pit

    pit Well-Known Member

    Since I'm alone a lot, I go into porn/masturbation frenzies. After which, I feel acutely suicidal. If I had a gun nearby, I'd blow my brains out in a second. Does anybody else feel this way when they're trapped in an unhealthy sexual binge?
     
  2. Fatman1966

    Fatman1966 Antiquitie's Friend

    For a guy, its not unusual to be that way, when you world is full of sorrow, then that moment of relief can go a long way, its not something to feel bad about, it just one of those things that guys do sometimes.

    Hell I'm 41 and untill recently used to do it nearly every day, more sometimes, its no big deal really.

    I'm a fine one to talk, but try not to look back at thing that have happened in the past, try to look forward, things can get better, will get better, it just takes time and a lot of hard work.
     
  3. Rammingstone

    Rammingstone Member

    I don't know if I'd call it unhealthy unless it's affecting your responsibilities and obligations. i.e. taking time off work to stay home and 'feed the beast'.

    Some guys have VERY high sex drives and can have sex 3 or 4 times a day if the opportunities present themselves.

    I know how you feel though, sometimes you just feel so dirty...
     
  4. Placebo

    Placebo Well-Known Member

    You think 3 or 4 times per day is a lot? :blink:

    And FYI: Women can have high sex drives, too. I once had 7 orgasms in one day. Top THAT, Mr. Man. :cool:
     
  5. Melmoth the Wanderer

    Melmoth the Wanderer Well-Known Member

    Is it the binging part, the masturbation itself, or the types of porn you look at that bother you the most? A lot of people, perhaps even most people, feel very guilty and dirty about sex. I personally try to think of sex as a natural and healthy necessity. As humans, we eat when we're hungry, sleep when we're tired, find shelter when we're cold, and masturbate when we're horny. :biggrin: