I really don't know what to do anymore. I'm conflicted. One half of me is telling me to hate his guts for hurting me so much. I've had some time to think about some of things that went on and it became clear to me that in some instances I was just plain stupid to what was going on, and to stay with him regardless of all of that, was a very foolish thing to do. I should have gotten out the second it all happened and never looked back. It's too late now. Well, it's not. We broke up already. What I mean is, it's too late to take back everything that happened after it all happened. The lies, more hurt, y'know. So it goes without saying, this asshole hurt me and doesn't deserve a second more of my attention, right?
That's where the other half comes in. I'm lonely. I'm a terribly lonely person and can't stand being alone. I have my family who I live with, but that isn't the same really. They're not 'there' for me in terms of support for my problems. I'm sure they would be, if they knew anything was up. But they don't. I have no real friends I can go to to talk to at all. All the friends I have I dislike in some shape or form, even if it's not all the time. He's the only person I ever felt truely comfortable around. I'm a very socially awkward person, both on the net and in real life (though more so in real life), so finding someone I can be (almost) 100% myself with is a break-through right? Who knows when and IF that'll ever happen again. Maybe, I should just get back with him, let him hurt me all he likes and just stop caring. Because I'd rather be hurt over and over by the one I loved than be lonely. At least I can be myself and talk to him about my problems. But isn't that using him? Not that he doesn't deserve it, mind you.
So what do I do? I can predict the answers being something along the lines of, "You deserve better", "He doesn't deserve you", "You'll find someone else", but to be honest. You don't know that. It's easy for other people to say those things, when they aren't the ones without hope. I need someone who can be there for me, and he is the only one there is. I'm sure I can deal with the pain of the lies and the past, and even the pain of him possibly cheating on me again, as long as I can talk to him and not be lonely anymore.
I don't even know why I am writing this. He hasn't been online to speak to me in over a week now. He's probably gotten shot of me for good. I can't blame him. I wasn't exactly nice to him when he was around. I just don't know what to do anymore. =\
That's where the other half comes in. I'm lonely. I'm a terribly lonely person and can't stand being alone. I have my family who I live with, but that isn't the same really. They're not 'there' for me in terms of support for my problems. I'm sure they would be, if they knew anything was up. But they don't. I have no real friends I can go to to talk to at all. All the friends I have I dislike in some shape or form, even if it's not all the time. He's the only person I ever felt truely comfortable around. I'm a very socially awkward person, both on the net and in real life (though more so in real life), so finding someone I can be (almost) 100% myself with is a break-through right? Who knows when and IF that'll ever happen again. Maybe, I should just get back with him, let him hurt me all he likes and just stop caring. Because I'd rather be hurt over and over by the one I loved than be lonely. At least I can be myself and talk to him about my problems. But isn't that using him? Not that he doesn't deserve it, mind you.
So what do I do? I can predict the answers being something along the lines of, "You deserve better", "He doesn't deserve you", "You'll find someone else", but to be honest. You don't know that. It's easy for other people to say those things, when they aren't the ones without hope. I need someone who can be there for me, and he is the only one there is. I'm sure I can deal with the pain of the lies and the past, and even the pain of him possibly cheating on me again, as long as I can talk to him and not be lonely anymore.
I don't even know why I am writing this. He hasn't been online to speak to me in over a week now. He's probably gotten shot of me for good. I can't blame him. I wasn't exactly nice to him when he was around. I just don't know what to do anymore. =\