I have a 16yr old son, and we are both struggling right now. I have been having a lot of flashbacks and it takes a lot out of me, my son has started to insult me. He calls me lazy and a bad parent, if I ask him to do something he mocks and insults my request. This really just makes it worse for me and I've tried talking to him a little, though I'm not sure how much detail to give, so I give very little. This is very unlike him so I know he's having a hard time with how I am lately and I understand how it looks like I'm lazy and a bad parent, I kind of am. Is there anyone who can offer some insight or anything?