one of my frenemies invited me for a party but i don't want to go to her place because there will be the guy who's responsible for why i'm here in this forum. will it be weird if i just stop seeing her and hanging out with her since she's friends with that guy? i really don't want to, but then i'm not so good at being politically correct so i don't know if it'll be alright if i let her realize i don't want to see her again. also i'm a big avoider so i won't tell her i don't want to because telling her would mean confrontation about things i don't want to talk about. sorry its such a silly question. but any advise would help.