A "friend" of mine told me it was my fault that I got involved with an abusive psycho. I told this "friend" that in the beginning there wasn't even a hint of aggression in the man and I thought he was a nice guy. Things just started escalating. I told my "friend" that I refused to take responsibility for what happened. The next time I see this... "friend" I'm going to explain the difference between true friendship and people that just pity you. I've only kept this "friend" around because I pity him. He really has no real friends and people avoid him as if he has leprosy. Gee I wonder why... I really don't need people like this in my life. I feel bad for him and he does have some good qualities but that was totally uncalled for. I feel like screaming.