Like the title says, I always have been, everywhere I go. At work, and in relationships. I am probably "too nice" and that's what makes people think they can walk all over me and bully me? Or I am too easy going? I come across as friendly and nice to everyone I meet..... I AM very easy going, and easy to get along with. I also am a people pleaser, and like to see everyone happy. Maybe that's my problem? Too people pleasing? Too accommodating? I wish I was more selfish and bitchy, to be honest. Some women have that bitch factor, and abusers and toxic people stay away. I don't have that characterstic. My bitchy side only comes out when someone disrespects me in a big way or when someone pushes me too far, and then I reach my limit and push back.
I just wish I knew what it was/is about me that attracts these types ALL the time? I have been a target for these types of people for as long as I can recall. What is it?
I just wish I knew what it was/is about me that attracts these types ALL the time? I have been a target for these types of people for as long as I can recall. What is it?
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