Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by juicy, Dec 23, 2013.
Sometimes I say mean things to people and I don't mean it, but I can't help it.
Are you angry or upset when you say the mean things?
Do you know you're going to say the mean things before you say them or do they just fly out of your mouth?
Do you say the mean things to everyone or just people that will take it like family or friends?
Do you wanna stop doing this?
I say them to strangers
Eh, I guess there is the "do unto others...." thing, but they'll get over it. I don't think that makes you a bad person.
You could just make a conscious effort to say something nice to someone to make up for it.
Yh i do that, but to people i know, i don't know why i do it, it just happens in the middle of a conversation i find myself being mean to said person wich then makes me reflect on it and feel terrible after a few hours or so (mostly at night) and makes me feel bad to the point i go apologize to just do it again after a big while i don't even notice i'm doing it anymore until i think about it,it's a vicious cycle.