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am i too nice

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Starlite, Nov 16, 2008.

  1. Starlite

    Starlite Senior Member

    yep that is the problem ..im too nice..too forgiving...too everything...well screw it
    ! No more mrs nice guy! The tide has turned! And I'm not playing nice anymore! Forget about it!
  2. snowraven

    snowraven Well-Known Member

    Llama,llama,duck. You ok Karren? I don't mind how you play it you will always have my respect and I'll always be available if you need to chat.:hug:
  3. Starlite

    Starlite Senior Member

    nope im not okay!!!
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Has something happened Karren?
  5. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    You need to look out for yourself.
  6. Starlite

    Starlite Senior Member

    yep, i've come to the conclusion that i dont matter and nothing i say or do matters. far cry from knowing it in the first place. Nevertheless, wish i would disappear off the face of this earth!
  7. Starlite

    Starlite Senior Member

    yeah i know im beyond anyone's help but my own
  8. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    That's not what I mean. You need to look after yourself BEFORE you look after others.
  9. Dave_N

    Dave_N Guest

    I'm sorry Karren about the exercise comment. :hug:
  10. Melancholy

    Melancholy Well-Known Member

    Karren, if you weren't so nice I probably wouldn't be alive right now :unsure:

    I'm sorry that people have been taking for granted your kindness, but there are many here who appreciate your caring heart.

    Always here if you need to talk, I hope things get better for you. Look after yourself,

    :hug: Lauren xxx
  11. Hazibell

    Hazibell Well-Known Member

    people always say im too nice too
    really need to change it round.
    but tbh i cant see anything wrong with being nice other than when people treat ya like shit.
  12. Starlite

    Starlite Senior Member

    Lauren, im glad you are alive! I hope to have you around for many many years to come!

  13. Starlite

    Starlite Senior Member

    Hey hazibell

    sometimes it sure seems that way...taken for granted and such. im almost certain its me the majority of the time though. i dunno

  14. Starlite

    Starlite Senior Member

    ugh, yeah i know you are Dave.
  15. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    In this world, Being nice means being weak.
  16. Starlite

    Starlite Senior Member

    yeah that is what i figured
  17. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I was too nice for along time, was used,bullied,took advantage of,raped.
    Since I have started to be more bold, iv become aggressive and got arrested 3 times. I dunno which way is better:rolleyes:
  18. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

  19. Starlite

    Starlite Senior Member

    been there..minus the arrested part...
  20. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    I don't agree. In a lot of situations it takes strength to be nice.
    Anyway, I'd rather be considered a good person then a strong, tough person. I'm not afraid of being vulnerable....but that's just me...I don't know.