Rhetorical question, cause I know I'm not, but regardless, my mother seems to think she was a great parent and I was a terrible child. Interesting theory, except completely ass backwards. I've had Crohn's Disease since I was probably 15 years old, or younger, and not one time did she care enough to try to help and get me to the doctor and diagnosed. It got so bad that I couldn't get the fuck up out of bed, and what did she do? Not only did she not try (or seem to care) to help, she kept pushing me to go to school and get and job even though I was in so much pain, it wasn't even tolerable most days...but still on the days that it was, I pushed myself to do what she wanted as much as I could. Needless to say, several times it didn't work out. I had to drop my classes or got dropped by the instructors because I couldn't show up because I was in pain. I was in and out of the ER about 5-6 times a year, and still left as clueless as I came in every time when it came to why this was happening because the doctors there were morons. And still despite all that, she kept pushing, and insulting me in the process, saying I could never finish anything and I was basically a failure at life. Then finally I found out I had Crohn's just this past December, thanks to my husband who did find me a good doctor and made sure I was diagnosed. I had to have surgery, and am now on Remicade and doing better. And still to this day my mom doesn't think she did anything wrong and that I'm the fuck up here. Not to mention the whole slew of mental disorders I have due to 26 years of emotional abuse. But yeah, I'm the asshole and the fuck up and you did everything right. Keep thinking that, you clueless, ignorant, bitch.