We are all entitled to an opinion. Each may have their own, none is never lesser or of greater importance than another. So please understand that. This is My opinion, if you do not agree with it, then do not respond. I am not here to be berated, or belittled just because you disagree with my opinion. I have not been a member for long (just a year, it is short in comparison to a few who frequent this site). I have seen so many people come and go, some for better some for worse. It is a shame for those who fall too low to pick themselves back up. It is a shame that they wont allow others to give them a leg to stand on. It is sad, but it is a part of life. However my opnion is not on that, but on the members of this site who so frequently proclaim to always talk to someone who sits alone in triggering subjects... I find it rather bemusing that upon frequent if not all times I sat alone in that room for hours, not one would ever drop a message not even a hi, cant talk but saw you down there... How belittling does that feel... greatly... But the whole fact that makes it worse is that these self proclaimed people then go through alternate sources to ask them how I am, when I was sat in the room not some 5 minutes previous. I have never been big on self worth but thats a sure fire way to make someone feel smaller than a damn ant. Is it so difficult to even drop a message on the forum, or leave a message on their wall... no. You have to go through a secondary source. Am I that unapproachable, am I that insignificant that I cannot be communicated with. Part of the reason I took a break from the forum was the feeling of isolation. I was outcast to the bottom of a dirt pile (once again forgive me but this is my opinion and my opinion is as valid as yours may be). So a question to every single one who reads this thread... ask yourself this... Do you ever ask someone else about another person? If so, Why? Why do you not approach the involved person direct?