I've recently (2 or 3 weeks ago) started seeing someone new. So far we've kept it secret because we both have a lot of mutual friends with my ex boyfriend. We were talking last night about telling people soon, and I'm so freakin' scared. I'm scared that, as soon as we start telling people, it'll eventually get back to the ex and idk what he's going to do. I'm really scared he'll come to my house - I live alone, and if I have to I'll call the police on him, but I don't want to have to do that. I don't *think* he'll physically hurt anyone, but I'm afraid he'll be emotionally hurtful or that he'll hurt himself. He was suicidal a few months ago, and from what I've heard he's still a mess. I'm so worked up over this that my stomach's been tying itself in knots. The current bf and I can't keep this a secret forever, and he doesn't want to keep it a secret too much longer. I'm both really scared, and feel really guilty because if I hadn't been with my ex none of this would be happening now. I also feel horrible because my ex was ok when we started dating, but by the time I broke up with him really isn't in a good place anymore. Any suggestions here would be much appreciated. I can't think straight right now, I've got too many emotions going on right now, and I'm really scared of what the outcome of this will be. Thanks for reading folks.