Hi, I'm brand new. Not sure what to write. I promised a friend I would try and wait until after christmas to do it, but I am struggling to keep my promise. I am a bit of a coward, so that helps me keep my promise, but I want it all to be over so much. I also don't want to ruin christmas for my toddler, so I guess waiting until next year would be good so he can grow up enjoying the holiday.