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Accio

Well-Known Member
#1
Thanks to my dream, I'm unable to stop thinking about the guy I had a crush on 14 years ago.

I always wonder if I hadn't of moved away, would we have got together?

Problem is that he has a son and a girlfriend. Whether the mum is still his girlfriend, I really do not know.

I want to message him and express my feelings towards him.

I generally don't go after taken men and this is why I'm posting here.

Will it be a bad idea to message him?
 

Human Ex Machinae

Void Where Prohibited
#2
Thanks to my dream, I'm unable to stop thinking about the guy I had a crush on 14 years ago.

I always wonder if I hadn't of moved away, would we have got together?

Problem is that he has a son and a girlfriend. Whether the mum is still his girlfriend, I really do not know.

I want to message him and express my feelings towards him.

I generally don't go after taken men and this is why I'm posting here.
What are you hoping might be the result?
Will it be a bad idea to message him?
What do you fear might be the actual result?
 

Accio

Well-Known Member
#3
What are you hoping might be the result?

I really do not know. I guess confirmation that he also liked me back then? It sounds stupid now that I say it out loud.

What do you fear might be the actual result?
I really do not know. I guess confirmation that he also liked me back then? It sounds stupid now that I say it out loud.

He's mean. His girlfriend goes off at me or even worse, I get completely blanked.
 
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