Quite simple really. If you feel like you have to hold certain things back, avoid things about yourself (like hobbies and stuff your partner doesn't like).. do you stay with them? I'm just now getting anyway from a fight with my boyfriend. Its stupid really, but for some reason I'm still in tears. Its over some stupid video game hobby I have, he keeps lecturing me saying I have better things I can do in my time than video games. I don't see why we even fought about this...thats kinda why Im asking.