I had an arranged marriage at the age of 27 to a girl from India. She had mental problems and she lied about her condition before marriage. Once myself and my family found out about her we decided to divorce her. I had spent $20 k on the wedding and also had to pay that **** $10 K compensation otherwise she would not sign the divorce papers. My family persuaded me to remarry again 4 years later to a doctor girl in an arranged marriage format. I didnt get to see that girl before the wedding but saw a few of her photos. She looked just ok in the photos and so I agreed to get married thinking atleast she wont be a xxxxx On the wedding day I saw her for the first time and thought what the **** have I done again? She was pig ugly and I thought how did I manage to make such a ****** up mistake? Why the **** did i decide to marry her without seeing her first. I tell you why its cos my parents pressured me to get married cos they thought if i get married I would be settled. I could not consummate my marriage as I do not find her remotely attractive. She basically looks like a man. She must be one of the few people on earth that looks even uglier wearing make up. She and i have nothing in common either. Ive been married for 8 months now and applying for her visa into UK. I am totally ******* depressed. Divorce this time will be difficult. I sought the advice of a solicitor and she told me that it would cost me $40 K in alimony. Ive already spent $15 K on this wedding. Its not just all about the money; this divorce will cause her a lot of pain (as its not her fault she is ugly), her family and my family are very close due to previous marriages between the two families and it would bugger up that good long relationship and I will be the cause of it. Its difficult for Indian women to remarry and my ugly wife despite her being a doctor may not be able to remarry and I will be seen as being responsible for it. I am feeling well ****** off with life. I had everything; good job, house, car and now its all ****** up. It will be difficult for me to remarry again (cos I will be divorced twice) and I dont think I will bother. Arranged marriages have screwed me over totally twice really hard that I am totally fed up with life.