Anyone got a broken heart?

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by AliBlack, Sep 17, 2009.

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  1. AliBlack

    AliBlack Member

    Is anyone else suffering a broken heart? I feel totally alone in how I feel after being left 2 months ago after 18 years.
  2. necrodude

    necrodude Well-Known Member

    i have one. but its not bad. the pain i feel kills me, but i know it will serve its purpose.
  3. twc

    twc Well-Known Member

    I had a terrible breakup a few years ago. They are very difficult.

    I recommend trying to get in touch with old friends. Especially since you have been with your partner for so long, it is good to see people that you knew before you dated him.
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    I'm not but I really hope you'll begin to feel better soon :hug:
  5. Ordep

    Ordep Well-Known Member

    Yep, broken heart right here... lots the only person I ever really cared about to stress and a stupid misunderstanding... That was over a year ago and it still hurts like it was today.

    Wanna share what happened for the break up? PM me if you want to share experiences or anything
  6. forgotten

    forgotten New Member

    iv got broken heart. it been 4 years away from him. i wish i could see him again. it really hard.:unsure:
  7. physician

    physician Well-Known Member

  8. wallflower

    wallflower Well-Known Member

    Yeah I do. Heartbroken because I've never been loved by anyone in my whole I gave up awhile ago and I'm just waiting for the end. I tried loving people despite they don't love me, but its hard. I used to love people. But love is just something you pass around that doesn't really mean enough to me.
    My heart sometimes hurts.....
  9. AlexDanish

    AlexDanish Account Closed

    Yeah, but with a girl I never actually had. We just had a deep relationship... Deeper than any I've ever known. And over time it slowly died. We're still friends, but not a day goes by when I don't think of her, what we used to have, what things used to be...

    It wasn't a sudden pain... It escalated over time. Like fabric slowly ripping, and you just feel the rip with every thought, every step, every breath, every second.
  10. Sleepwalk

    Sleepwalk Well-Known Member

    One more here. I became involved with a friend. A married friend. Since she came to me I figured her marriage was over. Early on I told her my greatest fear was that if he found out and she stayed with him, she and I would lose each other completely. When he found out, they split. Unfortunately, as I was trucking at the time I was away from home a fair bit. They met up a few times and a couple of months down the road decided to give it another shot.

    She and I still e-mail occasionally and have even gotten together a few times since our split. And it kills me every second of every day.
  11. Right U R Ken

    Right U R Ken Well-Known Member

    Not just broken, crushed.
  12. mike25

    mike25 Well-Known Member

    Hasn't everyone? One of those life experiences.
  13. unaffected

    unaffected Member

    Yes defiantly it was 3 dam years I can’t believe she wants to split up after 3 years it’s been about a month now and I still can’t help but think about her lovely face every so often I burst into tears because I miss her so much and she was the most special person that came into my life.
    I still feel like just dieing because I can’t stand the idea that she’s happier without me and that she’s spending precious moments with someone else.
  14. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    1 1/2 years of a broken heart.
  15. warwithlife16

    warwithlife16 Active Member

    I have one .. and its the worse. What kills me the most are the MEMORIES ... and knowing that never again the person will be by your side. it kills me.
  16. 12years

    12years Well-Known Member

    After 18 years?

  17. poison

    poison Well-Known Member

    what a wonderful post, made me chuckle. i agree mike.
  18. NIN

    NIN Member

    I don't know what's worse - a lonely heart or a broken heart. I've never had a broken heart, but I'm more lonely as anything. While a broken heart is a horrible thing, at least you know that someone at some point in time once cared for you and loved you even. With a lonely heart, you feel like no one will ever give the slightest shit about you since it's never happened before.
  19. Angelo_91

    Angelo_91 Well-Known Member

    hey man i feel for you. Your situation is 100% like mine. I grew so attached to this girl that I wasnt even dating but it was love for sure, at least on my end.

    Nowadays I feel like I have a heart of stone and nothing hurts me anymore.
  20. poison

    poison Well-Known Member

    that is by far the worst feeling one can have. i know what it feels like man.
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