Are you a loner by choice or just alone?

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by boo, Jun 2, 2010.

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  1. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    I think I am and was fine being one to be honest. Until i got a taste of what's like not to be alone, then all went to hell. Now don't confuse being alone and being a loner. Loners don't need relationships and don't seek them out.

    Are you a loner by choice or just alone and lonely ?
     
  2. Perfect Melancholy

    Perfect Melancholy SF Friend

    Alone and lonely, but I would say that I am too afraid of losing someone or being rejected again so I wouldn't want to put what I am on anyone else, but at the same time I wish there was someone.

    Confusing isn't it......:unsure:
     
  3. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    No not at all. It's the yin and the yang of relationships...
     
  4. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    I feel like its safer to be alone...so im a loner by choice for many reasons i cant even rap my own head around it let alone explain... :(
     
  5. Little_me

    Little_me Well-Known Member

    I don't know... I enjoy silence and peace, but I suffer from the lack of social life.
     
  6. Ziggy

    Ziggy Antiquitie's Friend

    Surprised? I think I worked that one out when I was 9.
     
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  7. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    I'm just a burden really. I don't add to anything, I only take. Like a leech. I wish I could do something about it. But i can't.
     
  8. Ziggy

    Ziggy Antiquitie's Friend

    Like my cat... and she's the most important thing in my life.

    (Ok, before you say anything I know that's not a very good reply, but hey I'm not trying to make friends here... we have no friends)
     
  9. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    Nope, you knew when getting your cat she will give you affection and lots of laughter due to her mischievous behavior. I think it's only fair you feed her.
     
  10. Ziggy

    Ziggy Antiquitie's Friend

    But somebody else could feed her.
    And somebody else could give better responses to your posts.
    And somebody else could be more caring and loving to the women I like.

    And the thing that I hate most, is when they don't.
     
  11. Kaos General

    Kaos General Well-Known Member

    I was a loner by choice then i got in a relationship too and it kinda went downhill from there, now im just alone and lonely :cry:
     
  12. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    You and i, both. Let's have a brew :drunk:
     
  13. WildCherry

    WildCherry Staff Member ADMIN

    You add to so much, and you don't even realize it.
     
  14. Kaos General

    Kaos General Well-Known Member

    wooooohoooooooooo :drunk:
     
  15. Ziggy

    Ziggy Antiquitie's Friend

    My, hasn't this thread turned out nice.
    Thing is, the secret to being a loner, is to hate other people. (or make them hate you)
    'Nuff said.
     
  16. Madam Mim

    Madam Mim Well-Known Member

    I am not a loner, but I am alone. I have alienated myself from everyone who ever might have cared about me. It hurts, but not as much as they hurt me. Don't people realise that their actions have conseqences? Don't they realise that I am a person too, and I have feelings?

    Maybe in time (if I last that long) I will become a loner by choice; it certainly seems to be the safest option.

    Mim
     
  17. kitanai

    kitanai Well-Known Member

    just alone
     
  18. IV2010

    IV2010 Well-Known Member

    alone and lonely.....
    I'm a loner but need a certain amount of interaction with others..
     
  19. dnE ehT

    dnE ehT Well-Known Member

    I'm a loner because I just don't care.

    I don't mind human contact, I just don't actively seek it.
     
  20. Tobes

    Tobes Well-Known Member

    I'm a loner, and do all my socializing through forums and work. I do miss seeing friends though.
     
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