I'm just wondering your thoughts and feelings on it. I dont know my birth dad. my mum i do. The guy I call my dad, adopted me when i was born. Now unfortunately, had have a bad "thing" that happened with my adoptive dad. but even tho theres that, I still feel bad for wanting to find my real one, as he didnt have to adopt me, or support me finacially. Then theres also the fact that my biological dad did see me after i was born (apparently) and he gave me a teddy, but he couldnt stay with me there and left, with my mum still sat at the coffee place. So idk. I dont even know if i want to know him. i dont knwo what i want form him. ive never had a 'parent' figure, so i dont knwo what his role would be. i just want to knwo what he looks like really. Idk, it confusses me. Just want some others thoughts on it. if any are adopted or in similar situations.