Someone very lovely made me realise that I'm searching for something. I'm searching to be heard, and the way this comes across is that I'm making sure that I hear everyone else (or rather, as many people as possible). It's sort of taking the need I need met and meeting it in someone else. I see other people on here doing similar things but with different needs (for example, attention, acceptance, being saved). I just wondered if you think you might be searching for something and doing something similar (projecting what you are searching for onto others and meeting, or trying to meet, that need in them)? It was just an interesting realisation to me when I finally realised it, that's what makes me ask.