Bad guys get more sex, research shows

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by OutCaste, Jul 22, 2008.

  1. OutCaste

    OutCaste Well-Known Member,23599,23883345-36398,00.html

    So what are they trying to say ? girls always fall for the bad boys because they'll push them around..who rough them up...whereas good guys are pussies nobody wants to be with a good guy. bad boys get more sex because they know how to take advantage of women. is this why everyone glorifies playas today ?
  2. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    It's been proven over and over again that women desire for bad boys. 99% of women want to experience being with a bad boy and having the rush that comes with it. Any woman here or anywhere else that says they don't prefer a bad boy is telling a lie.
  3. OutCaste

    OutCaste Well-Known Member

    a lot of women get matured after encountering the playas.

    I've seen more immature girls go for bad guys.

    but when they do mature, rarely a good guy would want them back.
  4. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    Well from what i've seen both immature and mature women deep down desire for bad boys and even if they are with the "good" ones, whenever a bad boy pops along, there are at the very least attracted to them. Women are designed to go for the bad boys. It's the fun and thrill that they want.
  5. Dave_N

    Dave_N Guest

    Women want a good guy to marry and raise their children with, but when it comes to sex, they prefer being with 'bad boys'. It might be some deep down primal desire.
  6. BioHomocide

    BioHomocide Well-Known Member

    A woman would choose a good guy for support and love, and choose a bad guy for everything bad.

    Bad guys know how to use woman and they will do what they have to for sex.
  7. $MyName

    $MyName Well-Known Member

    So the morale of the story is I should be a bad boy?
  8. Malcontent

    Malcontent Staff Alumni

    I think it all comes down to confidence, on the whole I reckon most women would want to be with a confident guy and so called "good guys" are often under confident. I'd guess a lot of women go through a phase of being attracted to "bad boys" because of the excitement and experience there is. But as they grow and get their own self confidence they don't find egotistical jerks attractive anymore. What I think women find really unattractive though are the sentiments that get expressed in threads like these. What woman with respect for herself would want a guy who appears to just want sex, blames everyone else for him being single, stereotypes women and other men, and basically sees women as something to own. I'm not saying this is what the guys in this thread (and similar ones) actually think, but it's certainly how you're coming across and if that is how women are seeing you is it any wonder women don't want to be with you? That kinda thing is also a sign of imaturity, like some younger women's attraction to men who only use them is. If "good guys" would stop blaming their relationship problems on stereotypes of other people I reckon they'd have a lot more interest from women.
  9. LetItGo

    LetItGo Staff Alumni

    Pretty sad if thats the case isnt it mate, says a lot about the opposite sex as well, or what "seems" to be a large percentage of them, no wonder so many guys just give up, or go to prostitutes, or just stay single for a good percentage of their life, certainly confidence is a big issue, but its natural to have little confidence when the odds are so heavily against u to begin with.
  10. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    Yeah that is the morale of the story. Every guy should turn into bad boys and not give a damn.
  11. OutCaste

    OutCaste Well-Known Member

    A lot of guys are becoming protypes of each other (no sense of individuality) and the girls are becoming bad and mean too. The other day I heard a girl say that she doesn't want to be with a emo pansie but a real passionate man who wouldn't even hestitate in raising the fist against her. What ever happened to respecting women ?
  12. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    You know what, I think that most men and women want it this way. Guys want to be bad, arrogant, cool, unbound by anything, there own masters. Gals want thrills, action, excitement, naughty fun. But I guess also everyone follows the crowd and like you said no one has a sense of individuality.
  13. Issaccs

    Issaccs Well-Known Member

    Women don't want bad boys.
    They want someone interesting, not some meek, boring, introverted jellyfish who justifies himself by saying he's "one of the nice guys"
  14. incognito

    incognito Well-Known Member

    Quoted for emphasis.
  15. JohnADreams

    JohnADreams Well-Known Member

    It's true. Women dont want bad boys, they just sleep with them more often according to recent scientific data. :smile:

    Like Josef Fritzl. Sure he locked his daughter in a basement and abused her for 24 years but those 5000 love letters he's received are from women wise enough to know that he's just a poor, misunderstood soul who needs a few extra cuddles to set him straight.

    I mean it's not like anyone would want to date a serial killer or deathrow inmate if they really were bad people, right?
  16. tyciol

    tyciol Member

    I doubt it's the whole 'oh women like to be roughed up' attitude a lot of sore nice guys seem to say so much. That's something that's mostly uncontemplated.

    It's more like a correlation. 'Bad guys' as people call them (which I think is a bit stereotyping) tend to be more confident and assertive. While they frequently abuse what they can do with this, the qualities in themself which are attractive are not abusive, but rather, how people abuse the power their charisma gives them over less charismatic people.
  17. Tony Walnuts

    Tony Walnuts Member

    So true, i've been in trouble a ton and i have tons of tattoos so im automaticly put in the "bad boy" class and truthfully girls do like it, i've never had a problem getting girls.... i guess it just depends on the girls you meet.
  18. bleach

    bleach Well-Known Member

    Quoted again for emphasis.

    Threads like this really make me hate this forum.
  19. $MyName

    $MyName Well-Known Member

    What about ones like that who don't justify it by calling themselves one of the nice guys? :whistling :laugh:

    It's kind of funny that it was brought up about stereotyping girls by assuming they all want bad guys etc but than a post like that making out that 'nice guys' are all boring as hell goes by and gets 3 quotes agreeing with no one saying anything against it.
  20. worlds edge

    worlds edge Well-Known Member

    Quoted for emphasis.

    Well...sites like this make me think this sort of thing cuts both ways: