Empathy Only bah

[HappyKitty]

In reality dude, once you have serious clinical problem and entering hospital more often, people will always judge you and look at you differently, giving you an unpleasant eye look like "the girl that cant cope," like and theres people who thinks its easy.... I can tell you, I do not go hospital frequently for fun and sadly, most days I even had to lie I am fine cause I don't want to worry so much or make you run away from me... Now I just have enough of those. Like guess what, my yearly MRI brain scan routine, blood test and such is coming up 2/2, of course I can't cry and expect someone to support me. Its my new normal now...

 

[HappyKitty]

FYI, despite all the shitty people not taking my tension headaches seriously but I was literally fighting myself asking for support to head to doctors and just wanting to save myself from tremors. I applaud myself for that. No need to whine and cry cry nobody is here for me. 🙄 Also, sorry I wasted my time asking you for support......

 

[Bergerac]

In reality dude, once you have serious clinical problem and entering hospital more often, people will always judge you and look at you differently, giving you an unpleasant eye look like "the girl that cant cope," like and theres people who thinks its easy.... I can tell you, I do not go hospital frequently for fun and sadly, most days I even had to lie I am fine cause I don't want to worry so much or make you run away from me... Now I just have enough of those. Like guess what, my yearly MRI brain scan routine, blood test and such is coming up 2/2, of course I can't cry and expect someone to support me. Its my new normal now...

This is terrible and makes me very sad to hear to be honest. Totally undeserving of this treatment.

 

[HappyKitty]

This is terrible and makes me very sad to hear to be honest. Totally undeserving of this treatment.

Yea, been very patient but asian is like that, I really appreciate anyone responding thanks 😸 even if its like delirious. I really like my therapist says too tho "you're independant," i agree, still challenging not to feel lonely about that. im like totally brainwashed "i dont deserve support," its confusing cause as humans, everyone can feel helpless and people kept isolating you..?

somehow i learned from my aunt thats divorced over time shes very bitter, i can understand that.😂

 

[HappyKitty]

Honestly just little respond can soften me. Maybe I just need company. 😳😸

 

[HappyKitty]

we need ... 😸

I wish for some company, and maybe asking to company me to medical appointments is too much, can we hang out for coffee then? We should social than just have business relationships... Also, dark humours has been occupying me to entertain myself when feeling lonely is too much. Don't forget the rules when hanging out...

✨ Be kind to each other ✨

 

[HappyKitty]

also im not surprised if people run away after my posts and thinking bck Im overly sensitive as such like no feelings, cant expect apology from people anyway and im used to people running away from me, i know when im not wanted like if you dont like this post and it triggers you as welll maybe ure the oversensitive one and dont read this thread like it should lock instead cus like i said "sorrryy for wasting your time asking for support...."

 

[KM76710]

Honestly just little respond can soften me. Maybe I just need company. 😳😸

Company here is something that I can easily give, although I admit to being easily distracted by all going on whether online or in person here, I especially notice every odd sound in the house and out on the roads with all the trucks, tractors and others going about.

 

[HappyKitty]

Company here is something that I can easily give, although I admit to being easily distracted by all going on whether online or in person here, I especially notice every odd sound in the house and out on the roads with all the trucks, tractors and others going about.

yayy how are you

 

[KM76710]

yayy how are you

Doing quite well and I hope the same is going for yourself. Just being lazy and glad that today there was no rain and it was a bit warmer. Beyond that just being a bit lazy here, or rather lazier.

 

[HappyKitty]

Doing quite well and I hope the same is going for yourself. Just being lazy and glad that today there was no rain and it was a bit warmer. Beyond that just being a bit lazy here, or rather lazier.

Nice weather! I'm good 😸

I just wish people would, its just a random thoughts. I'm pretty sure people will respond the same way instead of limiting others and being cruel. do you too? 😸 @Bergerac
1. Be more kinder.
2. No assumptions, ask questions.
3. Let each other express their own emotions and no judgements.

 

[KM76710]

Those are ones I can and do agree with. I admit that myself like most are a flawed, faulty as can be group so I live and let live.

 

[HappyKitty]

Those are ones I can and do agree with. I admit that myself like most are a flawed, faulty as can be group so I live and let live.

Yea, its so hard to find support even if you have a very close best friends.idky people just find it annoying if give them mountains of problems to expeess and always end up feeling alone..? :/ so those list has been my own wishful thinking, especially people commenting “who is worse,” its no longer being overlysensitive towards that but people always take advantage of it.

 

[HappyKitty]

on more interesting topic since my mood is better..do you guys wear sunscreens? 😸 hehe @KM76710 @Inanimate @Bergerac

 

[Inanimate]

on more interesting topic since my mood is better..do you guys wear sunscreens? 😸 hehe @KM76710 @Inanimate @Bergerac

Yep. Every day. What about you?

 

[HappyKitty]

Yep. Every day. What about you?

Yay nice. Same, do you reapply? 😸

 

[HappyKitty]

@Inanimate hey if u dont mind sharing, do you think finding right sunscreens is still a struggle, like there couldnt been a brand specific to keep consistent for daily used. what brand do u use or is it chemical or minerals one? 😸

 

[Inanimate]

Yay nice. Same, do you reapply? 😸

Yeah, when I’m outdoors for an extended period or when I’m going back out.

@Inanimate hey if u dont mind sharing, do you think finding right sunscreens is still a struggle, like there couldnt been a brand specific to keep consistent for daily used. what brand do u use or is it chemical or minerals one? 😸

I use a moisturizer with SPF from Cetaphil. It’s a chemical sunscreen. I detest mineral sunscreens. They tend to dry me out, collect on my facial hair, and leave an obnoxious cast.

 

[HappyKitty]

Yeah, when I’m outdoors for an extended period or when I’m going back out.

I use a moisturizer with SPF from Cetaphil. It’s a chemical sunscreen. I detest mineral sunscreens. They tend to dry me out, collect on my facial hair, and leave an obnoxious cast.

yea mineral can be drying, although theres new invention for minerals where they have reduce the cast, for chemicals, im always cautious abt picking reef safe ingredients if it were to absorbed into my skin. some of the chemicals sunscreen can be hard to find. banana boat sensitive mineral is good meanwhile, and chemical like korean sunscreens are also safe. like neither minerals/chemicals are perfect though, gotta try both. im hoping to find a bottle of sunscreen theres more than 50ml, its ridiculous to have one 50 ml that can be costly.

 

[Inanimate]

yea mineral can be drying, although theres new invention for minerals where they have reduce the cast, for chemicals, im always cautious abt picking reef safe ingredients if it were to absorbed into my skin. some of the chemicals sunscreen can be hard to find. banana boat sensitive mineral is good meanwhile, and chemical like korean sunscreens are also safe. like neither minerals/chemicals are perfect though, gotta try both. im hoping to find a bottle of sunscreen theres more than 50ml, its ridiculous to have one 50 ml that can be costly.

I see a lot of newer mineral sunscreens marketed as sheer that still leave a noticeable cast on people. The only sunscreens that have left an acceptable cast on me are the ones that have both chemical and mineral filters.

It is ridiculous that brands are only providing a measly 50 ml of a product that you’re instructed to apply and reapply in generous layers. That’s why I gravitate towards sunscreens for the body, otherwise I’d be buying a new sunscreen every other week. No one needs to go broke over sunscreen.