Being in Love

Waves

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#21
A song still brings my thoughts back to him. Now, my 2 friends from childhood dont like him for me, my niece/my heart hates him and daughter dislikes him. He's never done anything to them, it's my disappoint I guess. I say he's allowed to live his life as he wants. I'm guilty because I let it go on for too long without requiring my needs to be met, I knew, I hoped though.

This new guy, hes said thank you more in 3 dates than other one in 2 plus years. And I like him. Hes honest, hardworking, handsome.
lucky you have nice guy
 

Lane

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#32
Talking with ex again feels nice. We will be together for New Years. The high I get from him is I cant explain it. I can overlook what bothers me and just like being with him. I picture myself kidding his cheeks or being with him longterm and I dont do that with anyone else. Many things point to that not working out, so I hope that I can handle just being eith him on occasion. I think I'm in love with him.
 

Lane

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#33
Timing is off. He is very charming and I did try. I also know his faults, and health issues, they ARE there. I have to be smart. He still sends me little videos. I think he does want to be friends. I still hold a flame for him, I cant help it. He let this slip through his fingers.
 

Lane

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#36
New boyfriend is full of life, responsible, affectionate and honest..also handsome. So, I'm happy. I still think of my feelings for R. I thought I would be too old for all of this but hey, I'm not dead yet so, it is still possible to love. I just like being next to J. His mannerisms and voice make me smile. He looks great for his age too.
 

Lane

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#37
I didn't think I could be attracted to someone souch at my age. His dark hair, full lips, and deep voice. I miss him terribly when he's not with me. I'm scared of the intensity of my emotions.
 

BlueGreen

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#38
New boyfriend is full of life, responsible, affectionate and honest..also handsome. So, I'm happy. I still think of my feelings for R. I thought I would be too old for all of this but hey, I'm not dead yet so, it is still possible to love. I just like being next to J. His mannerisms and voice make me smile. He looks great for his age too.
Hope it works out @Lane, it sounds wonderful!*hug
 
#39
I read your entire thread and got into the whole situation. I can fully understand your feelings because I had a similar story in my life. I really liked the guy who seemed to be my soul mate. I loved him. But sometimes, he mistreats me. Humiliated me, did not take any action to apologize. But I forgave because I loved. At some point, my life began to go downhill because of this relationship, but I couldn't break it off.

Therefore, if you still cannot cope with this on your own, contact a specialist. I wish you happiness.)
 

Lane

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#40
When it rains it pours as the saying goes. I have J and R both texting me. E is the one that has been there for years helping me but there's something there that just irks me, the way he talks in circles. And sadly, others say he's ugly. I hate to put that on here, no judgement, right.

I'm at the stage where it would be nice to have company, but these guys, it just seems like so much effort. With J and R I have to drive and then there's the primping. But the truth is I'm kind of, hell, lonely.
 

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