My boyfriend betrayed my trust in a major, major way that I never would have expected from him. (I don't want to say what happened.) Discovering this has really rocked my world this week and I have been unable to focus. I keep flip flopping between crying and feeling angry. I feel like I'm grieving the trust that is lost. He has left to stay with family to give me space. I know I have time to decide if I want to carry on with the relationship but I feel like I should make a decision right now. I worry about both outcomes because on the one hand we have built a life together but on the other hand everything has changed upon this discovery. I know I'm not a fool, but when someone betrays you, you definitely feel like one. Our relationship has always been a healthy and close one and we have never had an issue this serious in the 4+ years. This is my first serious relationship as an adult.
I don't want much advice, but if anyone has dealt with overcoming betrayal/loss of trust in a relationship I'd appreciate that.
I don't want much advice, but if anyone has dealt with overcoming betrayal/loss of trust in a relationship I'd appreciate that.