Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by MRGSO, May 5, 2010.

  1. MRGSO

    MRGSO Active Member

    my BFF lied to all of us. She's stil smoking pot and told me to F off and stop trying to control her life. the thing is...I never told her she COULDN'T do it....I only said I was worried and AWLAYS there to listen. She keeps being a jerk but i don't want to abandon her....what now?
  2. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    It sounds like she's made her mind up, but you can still be there to support her when she's ready. I think the important thing is not to push it :hug:
  3. carekitty

    carekitty Guest

    I think I'd give her some space. Tell her you care and will be there for her, but you're not willing to have her talk in an abusive manner to you.