Better off without me?

Discussion in 'Welcome' started by lost@609, Jul 13, 2009.

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  1. lost@609

    lost@609 Member

    I'm sure i'm not the only one!
     
  2. reefer madness

    reefer madness Account Closed

    Welcome to the forum. I doubt anybody really is better off without you.
     
  3. lost@609

    lost@609 Member

    I beg to differ... people get over things.
     
  4. reefer madness

    reefer madness Account Closed

    Why do you think people are better off without you?
     
  5. lost@609

    lost@609 Member

    Because I'm not a good person. Selfish...
     
  6. reefer madness

    reefer madness Account Closed

    Being selfish doesn't make you a bad person.
     
  7. lost@609

    lost@609 Member

    Depends how selfish you've been doesn't it?
     
  8. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    :welcome: to sf lost@609. No matter how bad someone thinks they are, others lives would be negatively impacted should they decide to end their own life. You never get over it. You may learn to live with it, but it is there always. You talk about being selfish so it makes you a bad person. If you can recognize that a vice exists you have the power to change it. Do things for others, think of others, change a little at a time until you are happy with the person you become. Your life is worth living.
     
  9. reefer madness

    reefer madness Account Closed

    Only if your selfishness led you to do bad things.
     
  10. lost@609

    lost@609 Member

    My selfishness was the bad thing...
     
  11. lost@609

    lost@609 Member

     
  12. reefer madness

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    I don't think being selfish in and of itself is a bad thing. Sometimes you need to put your interests above those of somebody else.
     
  13. WildCherry

    WildCherry Staff Member ADMIN

    What did you do that was selfish?

    I think we're all selfish at one time or another. IT doesn't make you a bad person.
     
  14. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    welcome to sf :flowers:
     
  15. triggs

    triggs Account Closed

    hey hun :hug: welcome to SF
    i hope you find all the help and support you need here :smile:
    i'm sure you'd be missed hun, please stick around and talk to us about how you feel
    if you ever need someone to talk to, i'm always here :heart:
    triggs xx
     
  16. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    I am glad you recogize where your fault WAS now you can change it and become someone less selfish someone who thinks of others needs first. No one would be better off without you they would suffer. I am glad your here and i hope you can start feeling better about yourself soon.
     
  17. LenaLunacy

    LenaLunacy Well-Known Member

    Welcome to sf.
     
  18. ~Claire

    ~Claire Well-Known Member

    Welcome to SF Lost.

    Perhaps in time you will be able to share with us what is making you feel this way?

    :hug: xx
     
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