I am in a dead-bedroom situation with my wife. We've had sex once in the past year, seven months ago specifically. This isn't a new pattern. She says she enjoys when we have sex, but apparently not enough to want it. We have discussed this in couples therapy and general conversation, but it seems there is no resolution. I've pretty much always been bi-curious sexually, though I have not really done anything with other guys. I'm not attracted to other men physically or emotionally. Lately though, my sexual desires have been "male focused". I don't mean to stereotype, but it seems that getting together with another man would be "more simple" to meet my sexual needs (based on CL ads that I have posted/responded to). I don't want to cheat on my wife, but my needs are not being met. Any advice?