We have been together for over 2 years now and moved in together this past June. Ive told him it bothers me that he chooses to be high everyday and that I want some time with him while he is sober. He said he would cut back but it has been many months since he said that and nothing has changed. When I came home tonight I could already tell he was high and I said I was disappointed. He said he was sorry and that he didnt know it was still bothering me. I said of course, why did you think I changed my mind? I said its fine if you want to live this way but dont be surprised if I have to move on in the future because of it. I do love him and care about him and dont want to abandon him but it is really frustrating. I dont know what to do because it seems talking about it and asking him to change does nothing.