lol i seem to have taken over Let It All Out recently. I guess i have a lot of frustration, but one thing above all bugs me more than anything on here and its the most fundamental flaw people have on here. Its listening.
I know it might sound stupid but people on here dont know how to listen. When someone is depressed they want someone to listen to them, not sit their feeling even worse because someone has just turned their problem into their own. Recently ive been getting the same thing off people i talk to off here, no-one listens to me on SF, everyone hates me on their, they make it all about themselves. Oh i know no-one on here is trained or anything but would it kill people to just listen once in a while? This site could be so much better instead of pulling people more and more into themselves.
Chat is another thing that people constantly complain about. Let me tell you why. When i first joined, people in chat was friendly, whenever someone was in trouble etc. everything stopped and we helped each other. Now its just...like school. Their are groups of people who only talk to whoever is in that specific group and they consistently stroke their e-penises and over inflate their own egos. Anyone who is suicidal now just gets blanked. People get belittled by internet tough guys who as far as i can tell dont even know what depression is. Their are thousands of chat rooms out their where you can act like an asshole, why choose this one? Hell just make a open group on facebook and you can have a chat their as well. Im permanently banned from their and probably always will be, but i aint gonna be silenced when im speaking on behalf of other people who feel they are being bullied by people on here.
Im willing to chat to anyone on msn which is why you will find it next to my name on here, but bear in mind, i can be a asshole on occassion. Especially if im having a bad day, and that is no reflection on anyone. I will never delete anyone off their without good cause. Good cause means if your threatening or generally being an asshole and even then ill tell you to calm it down. Blocking people on msn aint me. If you add me on facebook, beware, thats where i hide most of my crazy.
I know it might sound stupid but people on here dont know how to listen. When someone is depressed they want someone to listen to them, not sit their feeling even worse because someone has just turned their problem into their own. Recently ive been getting the same thing off people i talk to off here, no-one listens to me on SF, everyone hates me on their, they make it all about themselves. Oh i know no-one on here is trained or anything but would it kill people to just listen once in a while? This site could be so much better instead of pulling people more and more into themselves.
Chat is another thing that people constantly complain about. Let me tell you why. When i first joined, people in chat was friendly, whenever someone was in trouble etc. everything stopped and we helped each other. Now its just...like school. Their are groups of people who only talk to whoever is in that specific group and they consistently stroke their e-penises and over inflate their own egos. Anyone who is suicidal now just gets blanked. People get belittled by internet tough guys who as far as i can tell dont even know what depression is. Their are thousands of chat rooms out their where you can act like an asshole, why choose this one? Hell just make a open group on facebook and you can have a chat their as well. Im permanently banned from their and probably always will be, but i aint gonna be silenced when im speaking on behalf of other people who feel they are being bullied by people on here.
Im willing to chat to anyone on msn which is why you will find it next to my name on here, but bear in mind, i can be a asshole on occassion. Especially if im having a bad day, and that is no reflection on anyone. I will never delete anyone off their without good cause. Good cause means if your threatening or generally being an asshole and even then ill tell you to calm it down. Blocking people on msn aint me. If you add me on facebook, beware, thats where i hide most of my crazy.