We've been together about 7 months now and it's not going well.. I moved in at his place about a week after we started dating, which was not good; because I need my own place and such. Well, I've tried to break up with him twice now and he always started crying and telling me how he can't live without me and all that bologna. The thing is, I hardly get any attention from him anymore. I used to get plenty when we started going out, now it's just me watching him play a game. We sleep in the same bed, that's pretty much the only time he spends with me anymore, he makes empty promises about taking me out and such. Never happened. I've not talked to people properly in about the 7 months we've been together, because he doesn't want to go out. I have my own place, starting tomorrow, but I am too scared to leave. I don't want to be alone.. I know I'll manage, but I am very, very worried about him since he doesn't pay his bills and he doesn't have any money coming this month; so I don't know how he'll manage. And I know it's not my job to be his caretaker, but I don't know how to stop worrying about everything. I mean he doesn't go to school anymore, we bought expensive books and all the gear he needs and he just stopped going there two months ago. I can't talk to him about school because he just ignores me or gets pissy. Last time I tried breaking up with him, I threw up because I was so nervous. And I can feel it happening again. I don't wanna fight with him.. I do love him. But I am sick of having to fight for attention with his computer. I can't take this anymore, but I don't want to see him cry. I'm too kind, way too kind. Oh, I talked to his mother about this and she was very understanding why I wanted to leave and basically gave me her blessing.. Which was nice, but I kept thinking that I shouldn't burden her with my sh*t. Gah! I know I will leave tomorrow. And I know I should tell him today and talk to him about it. But I can't. I don't know what to say, or how to say it. I know he'll just cry and tell me he doesn't trust me and doesn't want me to go.. Not sure this is where the topic should be, feel free to move it if needed.