Breakups

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by hammockmonkey, Jun 3, 2008.

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Breakup

  1. Don't, just let the relationship continue

    1 vote(s)
    4.0%
  2. Don't and start to see other people

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  3. Ask someone else to break up with them for you

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  4. Brief text, email or voicemail

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  5. Phone call

    2 vote(s)
    8.0%
  6. Detailed Email text, or voicemail

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  7. In person

    22 vote(s)
    88.0%
  8. In person with new significant other

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  1. hammockmonkey

    hammockmonkey Well-Known Member

    So, what is the best/worst way to end a relationship?
     
  2. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni

    I can't imagine people picking anything other than in person :laugh:
     
  3. kittyD

    kittyD Well-Known Member

    In person is the obvious choice for most but then some situations may need different ways. I left my husband of 20 years by moving out while he was at work, why...he was a verbally abusive alcoholic and had he known I was leaving , hell would have developed new shades of black. And i had to leave him a letter.
    kD
     
  4. BioHomocide

    BioHomocide Well-Known Member

    I chose phone call.... I don't want to get punched in the face. :laugh:
     
  5. famous.last.words

    famous.last.words Forum Buddy

    i put in person, thought ive been with my boyfriend so long in cant really remember!

    My last boyfriend i got him to dump me by being a really crappy person to be with. :laugh:
     
  6. hammockmonkey

    hammockmonkey Well-Known Member

    sabotage, i knew i forgot a method.
     
  7. ScouseJM

    ScouseJM Well-Known Member

    :hug: :hug:
     
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  8. Dragon

    Dragon Staff Alumni

    Hmm

    First relationship (girl) - over msn, mutual decision
    Second relationship (guy) - in person
    Third relationship (guy) - over text
    Fourth relationship (guy) - still ongoing

    Though I picked in person, I do believe that's the best way.. it just sometimes doesn't work out like that.
     
  9. hammockmonkey

    hammockmonkey Well-Known Member

    You're all wrong. Voicemail. that's how it's done.
     
  10. ScouseJM

    ScouseJM Well-Known Member


    :( i hope we can talk more when youre back :hug: :hug:
     
  11. MaNg0s

    MaNg0s Well-Known Member

    In person is the best way. It was horrible when I did it in person with my ex after I told her it was just not working out she wouldn't stop crying I must say it was the most awkward few hours of my life.
     
  12. ~CazzaAngel~

    ~CazzaAngel~ Staff Alumni

    I'd generally say, in person. But, not all situations can be handled in that manner, as I was in an abusive relationship, there was no way I could do it as I would prefer. But..... just my 2 cents.